After the date, you really want to know about your girl friend's ideas. So, how to attract here since the first date? Here are 4 tips to help you get a girl to like you.
1- Have no expectations or preconceived notions
Some guys have the notion that so long as a girl goes out with them, she is interested in him. This could not be farther from the truth. Girls would go out with you simply to have a good time and get to know you, that's it. Don't think too deeply into it, because if you do and you start to give a lot in terms of time and money, you will feel short changed when the thoughts and feelings you conjured up are not reciprocated.
Don't forget, she could be looking around, so there is no obligation for you to give away the entire farm for someone who is not even your girlfriend.
2- Your time is precious too
That's right your time is important. The value you give yourself is the same value people will place on you. When you give something away too freely, it will not be appreciated simply because no one paid for your time. Charge $500 for 1 hour consultation, and you'll find how valuable your time is to those who pay for it.
3- Always know what's going to happen next
Be prepared for a date, the same way you would take care for a friend from overseas. So if the experience was pleasurable for the lady, she would most surely be interested to go out with you again.
Again, although you're planning a date to provide a nice experience for your lady friend, it does not mean that you're going to appear needy. Rather, these actions stem from a part of you which is a nature of excellence and caring enough to let someone have a good time.
The motive behind the action is the defining criteria. And she knows the difference.
4- Have fun and flirt by responding
Bring her to a place where she can unleash her flirty nature. If she's a good girl, she would probably be shy, and don't want to feel embarrassed or look desperate by making the 1st move to have physical contact. So its important for the man, to initiate opportunities for some light skin contact.
Light skin contact can mean taking a photo together with your arms around her, or you reading up on some basic palmistry and offer to "study" her palms, which would of course require you to feel her hands. It's nothing hardcore, just light casual contact, enough to get the blood pumping, increase the heart rate and bridge the air gap between you and her.
Of course to do this, you'll need to put yourself and her in an environment where natural fun and flirty moments are asking to happen. It could be while you're having a chat in a quiet botanic garden, or a scenic view in your car near the beach, where quality one on one conversations can develop into light physical contact.
Kamis, 04 Desember 2008
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